Monday, April 03, 2023

4 years of transition!

4 years ago, April 3, 2019, at 19:42 CDT, my egg cracked. I was browsing Reddit, and got bounced from /r/lgbt to /r/egg_irl, and that sent me to

My confidence that I was a cisgender guy dropped to zero at that point. I decided to explore my gender, picked out the name Katie, and created a new Reddit account.

After a month or so, I figured out that regardless of what my internal gender might be (still not quite sure, probably agender), I was happiest being perceived as a woman by those around me.

So here I am, 4 years later. I'm marked as female on all of my documents, my deadname is almost completely buried, I've had my orchiectomy, and the only future step is full bottom surgery, but I'm not in a hurry to do that. I have a wonderful wife and a lovely girlfriend (both trans) and we are very much in love. 💙🥰💚

To all my friends, especially my dragon bff Scrydan, who helped me early in my transition, I want to say: Thank you so much!! And to those of you who are just starting your journey, I just want to say: Dysphoria is a liar, you are beautiful, and will only continue to get even more beautiful!!